The Why Trap

Photo by Andrew Neel from Pexels Babysitters know full well that children ask why about everything. You must wait for it to cool before you can eat it. Why? Because you will burn your mouth. Why? Because it’s too hot and needs to cool off. But why? Because I just took it off the stove. And round and …

Talk Yourself Into It!

  Feel stuck in quicksand or backed into a corner? Change your perspective to see what is possible. Challenges come from many directions, yet they all begin and end with you. How you talk to yourself, what you believe about yourself, and the attitudes you use in your approach to any challenge you face. When …

Waiting

We’re all stuck waiting for the world to re-open, and that world has forever changed. Let’s face facts. We won’t be returning to our regularly scheduled programming. We must dare to live beyond them, but that doesn’t mean we are ready to yet. It takes a little planning. Millions of online sources are advising that …

Mirroring

When someone snaps at you or becomes aggressive, what is your instinct? Do you snap back or match their aggression? A lot of us do. Defending ourselves is instinctual, yet we are no longer in the backwoods standing up to a saber-toothed tiger. You might feel as if they are behaving like one, but ultimately, …

Listening. Your Dance Partner in Communication

Photo by rawpixel.com from Pexels Last time we talked about communication being a two-way street. But what does that mean? It’s no use doing all the talking if you’re not being heard. And not just heard but understood. Listening is considerate contemplation the helps you formulate a constructive response in order to accomplish a goal, …

Missing Out

Photo by Leah Kelley from Pexels Ever feel excluded, as if you didn’t know the secret handshake or rate an invitation to the Big Deal event where the Who’s Who are all in attendance, except you? Don’t allow it to crush your delicate psyche. There are so many variables that had you falling through the cracks. Timing, availability, …

Spring Reboot

A change of weather can often bring a change of perspective. In the last year and a half, I focused on the writing and publishing of Psychic Savvy which answers many questions I receive when doing tarot readings. Once that was off the press, I freshened up my website. You can check that out at …